When a child eats with pleasure?

To date, all the moms who complain of problems with feeding the child, could be divided into two categories. The first, less numerous, are moms talking about the baby’s insatiable appetite, the second is very impressive in size category, are moms who complain of poor appetite of the child.
Why many children have problems with appetite?
Most often this is due to the fact that many parents try to force the “stuff” of children. So care for the benefit of the child turns to violence, which causes irreparable damage to his psyche. Many adults in the period of stress, emotions, worries about saying that they slice the throat will not go. Such a neurotic reaction to food is laid in early childhood, as a result of force-feeding.
What do you think, why do healthy puppies, kittens and other young animals have no problems with appetite, because they had not been fed by force. Problems with appetite may occur only in the sick animal, but even then it is not forced. No problems with appetite, and those children whose mothers did not worry about what day or two – week baby does not eat, they know that then it will take her.
From birth to two years
A child is born with a strong survival instinct, in particular, he knows and loves to suck. But breast-feeding – not just the introduction into the body of essential nutrients. From the first days of life is built on the basis of feeding the emotional life of a child.
When he is hungry, he is worried and crying, calling attention to their needs. When a child is fed, he is calm and happy. This transition from discomfort to comfort creates a significant emotional bond between mother and those pleasant feelings which are received by the infant.
When a child moves from breastfeeding to “adult” food, try to keep that positive emotional connection that was established between you and baby food in the first few months. For this purpose, in particular, show respect to his tastes. If he rejects a new food – do not insist. You can repeat this effort in some time.
Most often, feeding problems occur between the ages of one to two years. Child stubborn, refusing to eat, parents begin to worry and get angry. The more parents insist, the more resolutely opposes child. The less a child eats, the more anxious parents. Each dinner turns into a drama. The tension that grows between parent and child, causes other problems with his behavior. For example, a child can express their protest in the most extreme form – vomiting (which he calls artificial).
To avoid this, do not use banned techniques. If you’re performing in front of this sword dance, vsunete mouth zazevavshegosya baby spoon hated pumpkin porridge, he realizes that he had been deceived. As a result, he becomes suspicious and will always wait for the catch.
Do not try and succeed, all sprinkled with sugar or jam watering, you can reach either disgust or sweet tooth. And both are equally harmful. Remember that most kids willingly eat when hungry and stop when satisfied. Not persuade the child to eat a spoonful more, if you do not want to make this a natural process of conflicting beginning. The best way to maintain a good appetite of the child – not to show him what it is you want to feed him, paying no attention to his wishes.
Tastes are changing a child from month to month, and do not be surprised that he categorically denies that he liked so long ago. And if you insist that he eat only because you’ve already cooked, you’ll get only what the child a temporary aversion to this dish goes into a permanent one.
From two to four
Approximately one and a half years, baby tends itself to make decisions and exercise their will at every opportunity. Food is no exception. It was at this age usually originate in ongoing conflicts around the plate.
Understand, recognizing myself as a person, child tends to eat according to your tastes. And it’s great! The man may already know that he loves, which does not like it and announce it to his closest associates. Rate how important it is, and do not impose a baby of their choice, no matter how you were convinced of the usefulness of a particular dish. Find any suitable alternative. Do not panic over the fact that he did not eat anything. Thus the child is attempting to manipulate adults. This so-called “pen test” – check that it is possible and impossible. He refuses to oatmeal and buckwheat requested, and then he refuses to buckwheat and potatoes requests, but he neglects the potatoes and points to the egg. And so on until my mother have the patience. Well, if my mother’s patience is not enough, yet it must know what type of reaction, “I’ve nothing to fool head! Well let’s eat, and then the plate will wear on his head! “- Completely unacceptable.
Once the child is convinced that adults do not really worry about it and may even leave it to the hungry, then immediately stop such experiments. The nature of nature, but to eat something you want!
Tips
Eliminate from your vocabulary such expressions, which many adults can fight off the appetite, “You have such a club, it’s time to have the most,” “If you leave something on the plate – do not go for a walk,” “let’s eat well, and then, as Kashchei Immortal, “” I’m not used to cook for you to be here twisted nose, “and the like.
Never put your baby in front of a full plate. Better a few times to give supplements.
Do tiny sandwiches on one or two bites, and if they will be decorated with leaf lettuce, a circle of tomatoes, cucumbers, radishes, and even with a skewer, for which you can conveniently take to send it into his mouth – to seduce even the great “refusenik “to eat.
Do not try to cook in the restaurant. First, as noted, children prefer simple food, and secondly, you are wasting less time and effort, and you will not be so sad to see the fruits of his labor, smeared on the tablecloth or vyvalennymi on the floor. If you always clean the food as soon as the child loses interest in her and starts to play at the table, it will be more closely related to their eating habits and do not start playing until they satisfy their hunger. Here, however, should mention that if the game year-old child during feeding (when he gets the pleasure of dipping his fingers into the vegetables, spreading mess on the hands or drop of milk on the table) are normal, because for him it is one way of understanding the world, the for older children is unacceptable. Not allowing gaming at the table, the parents must be firm (take it from the table), however, this should not be angry.
Do unusual and beautiful dishes. If the long boring grated carrots and apples to fill a small round saucer, put raisins for eyes, eyebrows drawn with a spoon, nose and mouth, and draw the edges of the arrow-rays, then until the baby is looking at this “sun”, it is completely invisible can migrate to it in the mouth. Most often used to decorate the greens, slices of fruit and vegetables is not only beautiful but also useful.
Often have picnics and forays into nature, that’s fine, “walking” your appetite. And if you find the usual sandwich in a hollow tree or an apple “grow” on a pine tree, the long begged his son not to come.
Many children eat even the most unloved dish “for the company,” or at a party.
Try to keep feeding it was not torture, but the holiday. Do not threaten a child and do not scold him if he was something not hungry. Let him get hungry as follows – no problems.
Most importantly, remember that even a single child on their own did not die of hunger, so it is unlikely that your the first.
Four to eight
In this age of gastronomic tastes and preferences of children are determined by many factors, far from the cooking. For example, it may fall out of love potatoes and chop, which he so loved, because it was prepared, when he was sick pig.
Parents should know that the food should be neither reward nor punishment. Otherwise, it will be the measure of all things and the joy of victory is not without joy, and awareness of guilt instead of ice cream comes regret, which was deprived of a misdemeanor. The child did not circus dog to train him in such a primitive way. Because of this “taming” the child learns is using it to solve their problems, getting into the refrigerator, when things go wrong, finding a meal only joy and consolation in life.








